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The Reward of Investing in Your Social Growth

As we navigate different stages of life, personal development often takes center stage—whether in our careers, health, or hobbies. But one area that is just as crucial, yet often overlooked, is social growth. The ability to build strong relationships, communicate effectively, and feel at ease in social settings is not just a luxury—it’s an essential life skill. Investing in your social growth can open doors to fulfilling friendships, rewarding careers, and greater overall well-being.


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The Biggest Myths About Dating and How to Overcome Them

Dating can feel overwhelming, especially if you’ve been led to believe certain myths about how it all should work. Many of these misconceptions create unnecessary pressure, making the dating experience more stressful than it needs to be. The good news? Once you recognise these myths for what they are, you can approach dating with more confidence and ease.


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All about the Over 30’s Social Skills Workshop by Social Skills Australia

Navigating social situations can be challenging at any age, but for many adults over 30, the need to improve social confidence becomes even more essential. Whether you’re looking to enhance your career, build meaningful friendships, or simply feel more at ease in social settings, Social Skills Australia’s Over 30’s Social Skills Workshop is designed to help you develop essential communication skills in a supportive environment.

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How to Really Put Yourself Out There

For many people, especially those in the neurodiverse community, the idea of “putting yourself out there” can feel overwhelming. Social interactions can be tricky, and stepping out of your comfort zone may seem like a big challenge. But building connections and creating opportunities for growth is possible—and it starts with small, manageable steps.

Here’s a guide to help you put yourself out there while honouring your unique needs and strengths.

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As an Autistic Person, My Social Motivations Are Different—That Doesn’t Make Me Rude

For many autistic people, navigating social situations can feel like walking a tightrope. The way we approach communication and relationships is often shaped by our unique experiences and motivations, which may not align with neurotypical social norms. This difference isn’t about being rude or unfriendly—it’s about operating from a different framework of understanding and interacting with the world.

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Empowering Parents to Empower Their Teens

As a parent, you are your teen's first and most important teacher when it comes to social development. The social challenges that many teens with autism, ADHD, and other neurodiverse traits face can make navigating relationships, conversations, and social settings difficult. That’s where you come in. Your involvement in their social growth can make a world of difference.

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Why Neurodivergent-Friendly Learning Environments Matter

For neurodivergent adolescents and young adults, the right learning environment can make all the difference. Social skills, which many take for granted, can be a source of anxiety and confusion for those with autism, ADHD, or other neurodivergent conditions. This is where neurodivergent-friendly learning environments, like the PEERS® program, shine.

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Breaking the Ice: Easy Conversation Starters for Social Situations

Starting a conversation can be intimidating, especially for individuals with autism, ADHD, or other social challenges. However, a simple and well-placed opener can break the ice and create opportunities for meaningful connections. The key is to be genuine, show interest, and keep things light. Here are some practical tips and easy conversation starters to help get the ball rolling in various situations.

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Social Energy Budget - Managing Social Interactions Without Burnout

For many people, socializing can feel as energy-consuming as physical exercise. Whether it’s a work event, a family gathering, or even hanging out with friends, social interactions can drain your “social energy.” And for neurodivergent individuals, this energy depletion can feel even more intense. Enter the concept of a “Social Energy Budget.”

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Beyond Small Talk: How to Master ‘Medium Talk’

When we think of small talk, we often think of surface-level exchanges — the weather, “how are you?” pleasantries, or what we had for lunch. While these exchanges serve a purpose, they rarely lead to the connections and meaningful relationships we seek. Jumping straight into deep conversations can also feel awkward, or even invasive, especially if there’s no strong bond yet. So, what’s the answer? “Medium Talk.”

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How NDIS Participants Can Benefit from the Self-Paced PEERS® Course

If you or someone you care for is an NDIS participant and looking to improve social skills, confidence, and overall communication, the Self-Paced PEERS® Course might be the perfect solution. Designed for individuals with autism, ADHD, and other social challenges, this course offers practical tools that foster meaningful relationships and greater independence.

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A Day in the Life of a Teen or Young Adults Struggling with Social Skills 

Imagine this: It’s lunchtime, and you’re sitting by yourself on the playground. You have your lunch in front of you, but no one’s coming over to sit with you. You look around at the other kids, laughing, playing, and sharing stories, and you wonder why no one notices you sitting there alone. You want to join in, but you’re not sure how, and it feels like nobody would want you there anyway.

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Building Social Confidence at Any Age

Social confidence is a crucial element of building meaningful relationships and navigating daily interactions. Whether it's making a new friend, engaging in a conversation at work, or starting a romantic relationship, having the confidence to interact socially can transform your experience in the world.

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Top 5 Ways the PEERS® Program Transforms Not Just Participants, But Their Families and Loved Ones

When families first explore social skills programs like PEERS® (Program for the Enrichment and Education of Relational Skills), they often hope to see a positive change in their child, teen, or adult family member. What they may not expect, however, is how deeply these changes can ripple through the entire family and those who care for the participant.

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Why It's Never Too Late to Build Friendships

As we get older, life gets busy. Between work, family, and other responsibilities, making new friends can feel like a challenge. You might think that building new friendships is something that happens naturally when you're young, and that it’s too late to start now. But the truth is, it’s never too late to build meaningful connections with others.

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Navigating the Dating World with Autism, ADHD, and Social Challenges

Dating can be challenging for anyone, but for individuals with autism, ADHD, and other social challenges, the dating world often feels particularly daunting. The nuances of social interaction, understanding social cues, and managing anxiety can make dating an overwhelming experience. However, with the right guidance and support, building meaningful romantic connections is not only possible but also incredibly rewarding

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Benefits of PEERS® Online

As more educational programs move online, many families wonder about the effectiveness of virtual learning, especially for social skills programs. PEERS® (Program for the Education and Enrichment of Relational Skills) is an evidence-based social skills intervention designed to improve the social interactions and relationships of youth and adults with autism and other social challenges.

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Managing Social Capacity: Spoons Theory on Holiday

Planning a holiday can be exciting but it’s important to remember that when the time comes, the new destinations, experiences, schedules and foods can actually quickly become overwhelming. For those of us with autism, managing our energy and social capacity—often described through the lens of "spoons theory"—is crucial for ensuring a fulfilling and enjoyable trip

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The Impact of Social Skills on Mental Health and Well-being

Social skills play a crucial role in our mental health and overall well-being. They enable us to form meaningful connections, build supportive relationships, and navigate social interactions with ease. For neurodiverse individuals, including those with autism or ADHD, developing these skills can be particularly challenging but equally important.

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